Season Of Love – Positive Reflection Of The Week
Season Of Love: How To Maintain Love In A Relationship!
Relationships are all very unique. You may have experienced many different relationships, and each of them tasted different from the rest.
Though our love and feelings may vary in every relationship, there are certain facts about relationships that bind them together. One of them is the stages of a relationship; the stages which are common within almost all of them!
To know the state of your relationship and its health and future success, you need to first identify and assess the stage of your relationship.
Whether you are married, just started dating or thinking about taking your relationship to the next level, you need to know the stages of a relationship as well as which stage you are in right now, in order to see where you are headed to.
Although these stages might not happen in order, they often come along from the lower to the higher or from grosser to more refined.
As we approach 14th February, and usually it’s considered the time and day, when love is expressed. However, there’s also the concept of long-term relations, which are connected too. How do we make that Valentine’s Day special, not just once a month, but almost daily?
Relationships are a connection made by two people who found themselves attracted to each other, for several reasons. They first met, later the attraction grew, and they decided spending time together as a life partner. Now as we move along, lots of stuff happens, first the energy which creates a lot of distractions, is taking each other for granted (does this ring a bell?). So, how do keep the spark burning, the chemistry going?
The Physical Interaction
Very important to keep communications open and honest to each other. ‘Marry a person you see yourself growing old with, where you can chat for hours about every subject, later laugh’ – Author wise man
The Emotional Interaction
Know your partner’s needs, be sensitive be respectful to each other and the ‘Trust’ is very important is. Pay compliments often.
The Mental Interaction
Understanding each other’s mental connection. You know each other and can understand each other well. You have the ability to have deeper conversations, express your ideas freely and listen to your partner’s view points without getting bored. In this stage, you share a common ideal. Your values, beliefs and perspectives are understood and taken into consideration. You enjoy being with each other as you respect each other. Therefore, you can engage yourself in similar activities that both enjoy; such as watching movies that both of you like, discussing topics that you are both interested in, having hobbies that you both can participate and in general spending time in activities that both enjoy.
The Spiritual Interaction
Having spiritual conversations makes you spiritually connected, allows you to be free and respect each other’s journey without judging. You need to support the journey with understanding.
Facing problems together as a team helps build bonds and homes. Love is the lubricant to all pain and hurts embrace more, touch is a huge comfort in human body, spend time just hugging and appreciating the moment. Create activities you both enjoy & do them more together as one.
Happy Valentines! Now, today, and tomorrow. Make the moments of love last…
Shahwana Khanam – Pranic Healer
