Listening With Your Heart: Cultivating A Deeper Connection Within - Article by Shahwana When we begin to listen with our hearts rather than our heads, our whole world changes and becomes softer. This technique is all about being quiet & listening, to what it is that you really want. Spend that 10 minutes alone. Write things down, look at what your heart desires, this could be pertaining to any situation be it regarding relationships, work, health etc.