How To Have A Good Self-image?- By Shahwana Khanam We usually struggle in life and wonder 'why am I not good enough'. As we grow older, we then start seeking approvals of others & wait for them to acknowledge 'something good' we have done. Now, there is nothing wrong with wanting praise. However, have you thought of yourself to be this person with good qualities, or have you felt good about it? Or do you end up criticizing your actions & your behaviours, and always end up having that feeling of 'I am not good enough'? Now such is a sign, that we may be having a low self-image.