Communicating The Right Way: Every Couple Needs To Talk It Out! Being in a relationship isn't easy, as every relationship has its fair share of both good and not so good moments. Remember, you and your partner are not the same and hence having clashes and disagreements from time to time is completely normal. It's how you as a couple manage the clashes and disagreements. The end goal is to work together to building a stronger connection, and healthy communication is the key. In order to have effective, healthy communication, you first need to identify poor communication & what you need to avoid: